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During the first 17 years of your child’s life, you are probably managing a lot for them: finances, school, doctor visits, therapists, caregivers, transportation, housing and even grocery shopping. Before children turn 18, you automatically have the legal right to make all their major decisions. After that, they can legally make these decisions for themselves.
Maybe your child won’t be ready to manage major life decisions right at age 18. Maybe they never will.
There are many options for you to support your child after they turn 18. Tools like supported decision-making agreements, powers of attorney and informal supports are often enough to help families of children with disabilities or special health care needs. We talk about these in more detail on our Legal Options for Age 18 and Beyond and Legal Help for People with Disabilities pages. It’s important to read those pages before reading the rest of this one.
If you believe it’s in your child’s best interest for you or someone else to have legal control of some or all their adult decisions, you can ask the court for legal guardianship.
Guardianship is when a court gives a responsible person (the guardian) full or partial decision-making power for an adult (the ward). The guardian can protect and look after them. The court must say the adult is “incapacitated” — a legal term that means your child is not able to manage certain areas of their life — in order to set up a guardianship.
This is not a term to take to heart. “Incapacitated” doesn’t describe everything about your child, only some abilities.
Guardianships should be designed to help wards build and keep as much independence and self-determination as possible. If you apply and are approved for a guardianship, it will only cover some areas of your child’s life. The court clearly defines this. It could cover money, medical decisions, housing, voting or if your child needs permission to get married.
Courts take granting guardianship seriously because it takes away some of a person’s legal rights. Before granting a guardianship, a court must see:
There are several basic steps in applying for guardianship:
You can petition for guardianship any time after a child turns 18, but it might take months to gather all the paperwork. So, if you think there are good reasons your child needs guardianship starting on their 18th birthday, start working on this much earlier.
Once you complete and file your paperwork, it usually takes about 30 days for the court to decide on guardianship.
Lawyer and court costs are generally $2,000 to $5,000, depending on where you live in Texas and how complex the process is for your family. Some areas of the state may have nonprofits that offer lower-cost help with guardianship applications. You could also explore buying a legal plan to help with costs, such as from Texas Legal.
The State Bar of Texas has recommended lawyers you can call or reach online.
It’s important to always know exactly how much money and assets your child has once guardianship is granted. (An asset could be a house, a car or other valuables.) If your child has more than $2,000 in money and assets not kept in a trust, they could lose certain federal and state benefits. A special needs trust could help manage your child’s assets and prevent them from losing benefits.