May 30, 2024 | By: Leslie Curtis
Categories: Transition to Adulthood
For 21 years, we thought life with a son with disabilities was difficult despite having so many providers help us along the way. Now that Jac is 22 and has graduated from the public school special education system, it is harder to find resources for him. It seems like life is more difficult than in those earlier days.
These past several years were spent in Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) Therapy and a Life Skills Program. The focus was on community interactions and improving life skills.
Jac was hired at Chick-fil-A. At the time, I had my doubts. But he has been there 2 ½ years and recently got a bonus, a raise and Chick-fil-A swag to celebrate his work anniversary. He works twice a week for two hours a day. He fills the kid's meal bags with a straw and the prize.
Jac has learned the concept of getting a paycheck, wearing a uniform to work, clocking in and out and being part of a work family.
He also delivers Meals on Wheels three days a week with his provider. He loads the wagon with the meals and enjoys delivering them to the seniors. He now knows who gets the brown or white sack. He is even learning some of the clients’ names. And as usual, they love Jac and look forward to his visits.
One of Jac’s providers also produced a great idea of Jac being a bell ringer for the Salvation Army during the holidays. Jac loves everything about Christmas. He starts wearing his Santa hat on the first of November. This was the perfect idea for Jac as they would go ring the bell for two hours, two times a week. He got to spread some Christmas cheer and tell everyone, “Ho, Ho, Ho!” I can promise you, there has never been a more enthusiastic bell ringer!
My advice to other parents is to really consider what your young adult likes. What interests them? Try to think outside the box and consider modifications.
Another tip would be to call your local Texas Workforce Commission. They have a job coaching program and help those with disabilities find jobs. Also, check out the transition information on this website.
As a parent of an older son with disabilities, I have struggled with his education in math and reading for most of his school career. As parents, we sometimes have unrealistic goals for our children. However, at some point, we must pause and think about the future.
Categories: Transition to Adulthood
Today, people with disabilities have more options than ever before. They can attend college, go to work and live independently. But they need a good start through school and community experiences. As a hands-on and informed parent, you can help your child gain the skills they need for self-determination.
Categories: Transition to Adulthood
In Texas, when a child with a disability turns 14, they should begin attending Individualized Education Program (IEP) meetings with their parents. It’s the time to create a Transition Plan for life after high school.
Categories: Transition to Adulthood